Monday, May 08, 2006

Hang on, and hang in there :)

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To a dear friend of mine who's going through a difficult time at the moment,

I know I might not be able to help solve your problems...
After all, alot of what's happening now, you can't control, you can't prevent. Sometimes, you can't even understand.
And to be frank, neither can I.

Perhaps, it helps to think that God made it happen for a reason.
A reason that you might not be able to see now, but may reveal itself later in time...
A lesson to learn, and to keep during this journey of life.

I might not be the one who can solve all that's going on.
But I can be the one who's here... with a pair of listening ears,
with two sides of comforting shoulders,
with endless supply of tissue papers,
and perhaps, even with nothing at all...
But I'm here with me, with you...
To JUST be there for you.

I know you'll get through this :)
I believe in you...

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I hope things will change for him. Only time will tell. After all, people do not just miraculously grow up overnight :) And as for her, I wish her good luck, and I hope it all turns out well.

Hang in there, gal! *Hugz*

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Heys gal,

Thanks for the words of encouragement, the words of comfort, for the offer of your ears, shoulder and time. It really made a difference just to know that they are there when i need them, and boy, did i need them yesterday. :(
Your patience while listening to me rattle off those things was really really helpful. and i really mean that.

I'm aware that its something that i cant control, i cant predict, i cant.. i cant solve(which is why its all the more difficult. :()
You may not have helped me solve the problem, but you've helped enough. This is something that even I cant solve, for the solution is not in my hands. It is his, and I just hope he makes the right one.

Leaning on the hope that he will change, he will see things from a different view, and things will work out for the best.But only time will tell. But i'm still keeping the faith ..

*crosses fingers*

Mei said...

+ I know who you are: Yeah, I hope I was of some help :) at least...

After all, that's what true friends are for, rite?? Be it sunny or rainy, I'm still here with you.

We've got enough fair weathered friends, and we don't need one more! :)

**hugs**

*crosses fingers too* *and toes too*

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