Monday, June 09, 2008

Life Is...

It's been a very emotional day. 

Today, I felt like a really bad person, for not returning calls religiously. 
I am one who usually returns a missed call... usually, daysss after, if I even remember. 
Sometimes, never.... 
It's a really bad habit that I have, I look at the call, and then tell myself 
"Oh, I'll return his/her call after this"... and then I forget. 

Well, I returned Gaya's call today (She called over the weekend). 
ONLY to find out that our friend has passed away!! That her best friend has left us all, 
suddenly... unexpectedly... tragically. 
No accident, no trauma, no injuries, no obvious cause. 
Just.like.that... she was gone. 
OH.MY.GOD!!! I was shocked, speechless! I didn't know what to say. 
I just kept asking if she was okay. 

Needless to say, I couldn't concentrate at work today. 
I got emotional and started crying.
Work was really good and understanding... They told me to go home. 
I left work, and drove to Nishal's to meet Gaya. Everyone was there. 
I helped out a little for her memorial tomorrow.

To all of you out there who knew Nishal, 
do come and say your final goodbye tomorrow. 
The memorial service is going to be held @ 

Le Pine Funeral Services,
1048 Whitehorse Road, 
Box Hill
12pm - 2pm 

I couldn't help but thought, that life is indeed very fragile. 
One minute you're here... the next, you're gone. 
No warning signs, no preceeding illness, no nothing. 
Live everyday to the fullest... and tell your loved ones that you love them everyday, 
For you'll never know when will be the last time you'll see them.

I love you mom, 
I love you dad, 
I love you Funny, 
I love you Jon, 
I love you Remy and Bailey, 
I love you guys... all of you.
So very, very, much. 



5 comments:

Anonymous said...

My sincere condolences. I haven't been by here in awhile; I changed computers and my own blog address, lost all my old bookmarks. Will come by again.

Be strong, Mei.

Warm regards.

Michelle said...

Take it easy, babe! Love you!

Anonymous said...

sudden death?
hmm..
maybe HCOM

Mei said...

alynna & Michelle: AwWww... you girls are the best! Thanks heaps... I'm feeling alot better now.

Mei said...

anonymous: What's HCOM?? Do you mean HOCM? Nah, the autopsy results did not show any cardiac structural abnormalities.

Apparently, the result was:
Cause of death: Unknown.

Some biopsy results are still pending though... Body has been released.

We're thinking whether it could be prolonged QT. But I guess, we'll never really know...

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