Have you ever wondered if you are the best thing that happened to your partner?
Or are you just the one that happened to be there at that moment?
Would you wanna find out more about his past??
If so, what do you do if you discovered things you wish you didn't??
Would you wish that he told you everything right from the start?
To be entirely open and honest on every part,
That way, there'll be no disappointments and uncertainties...
But there's also no journey of discovery...
So, what would you do, thinker???
**Edit: This entry does not reflect what I'm going through... Just pondering about a situation that my friend is in... So please, do not ask me about my relationship. Things are good :) Thank you very much...
7 comments:
I used to be worried about my current bf's ex gf. she was a weirdo (I know, we all say that about their exes) but this one tried to kill herself. I laughed, which was mean but I thought 'man, she must have been watching too many chinese dramas or smth.'
Which lead me to the statement: if u love yourself and respect yourself enough you would never do smth as stupid as that. Which of course leads to self-esteem and how confident you are about what you are and what you have become.
I have stopped worrying about his ex, because at the end of the day I KNOW I'm the best thing that has happened to him (but don't ask him, he'll deny it!).
Don't worry about his past, we all make mistakes and have done things we are not proud of.
YOU are his present and his future :)
Agree with yerdeh...
No point finding out and pointless wondering as well...
That will only make you less happy...
It's best to sometimes pretend to be "not-so-smart" and overlook his past...
It might disturb you for a little while... but at least you wouldn't end up in a fight or something like that...
Have faith in him, in your relationship and especially in yourself.
=)
i believe in discovering things myself along the way. if i happen to discover things which i'm not happy about, i dun think it's right to question him cos that's his past, and he can't do anything to change that. all he can do is just make the future better, for the both us.
Let the past be burried. It doesn't matter. If it's meant to be stirred, it will do so by itself. Take my word for it.
i'm confused.
i'll need to ponder what your first two lines actually mean :)
happy holidays Mei.
The journey of discovery is no doubt part of the package..
but its whether one fall in the lucky few or the unlucky few, that makes the journey either a beautiful one or an ugly one.
The past is the past, i have to agree with michelle.. but its his/her past that makes the person that he/she is.. its definitely an issue for thinkers..i.e us
LOL
You are so pretty!
Will you marry me I want to father over 8 children with you and want to see you become famous!
I LOVE YOU!
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