Wednesday, June 01, 2011

Where there is joy, there is sorrow

They say that God is fair in all ways.
When He gives you something, He takes away something from you.
Today was certainly a tough day at work.
Interesting is a very optimistic way of putting it, I'd say.
My day started really well, as I performed my first laparoscopic ovarian cystectomy.
Yes, as the primary surgeon :)

But then, things took a downturn from then on.

The other week, I had someone name her baby after me :)

Today, the team at work lost a baby to God.
The paediatrics team performed CPR on the baby for more than half an hour,
Then wheeled the mom, who just woke up from general anaesthetics,
and the rest of the immediate family to be in the room,
Before they finally decided to cease resuscitation and withdraw treatment.

It was a sad, sad day, filled with many teary eyes.

I know I have seen much worse,
but it doesn't make it any easier.

I just have to face the fact that,
while my job is rewarding, and most times, it's happy and joyous,
There will be sad times as well.
As the world goes round,
and like they said... What goes up, must come down.

As sad as it was for me, I can't imagine how it would be for the parents.

May they stay strong, and help each other through this tough time.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Life is never either joy or sorrow, it is mixed and unpredictable. My favourite forrest gump saying "life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you're going to get"

p/s i used to follow your blog till you went private. pleasantly surprise to see you open it up again.

Mei said...

Bluefoot: It is indeed... Learning to accept that, but sometimes, it's still tough losing a life :(

ps: I went private because of some private matter in my life (dark times) but I'm past that, and I think I'm ready to write again :)

Thanks for still following after all these while. How did you find out that I opened it up again?

Anonymous said...

Yes, it is life, nevertheless, especially a young one who has never given a chance to see the world. I'm a dad myself, another one coming in November. I totally understand how it feels. Are you a gynecologist?

As I said, life is unpredictable, glad that it all works out for you and your fiance in the end.

I use google reader, all in a sudden, I see your page shows many unread articles. That's the time I know it is public again.

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